Wednesday, June 29, 2005

June 30, 2005

Thank you everyone for your positive thoughts, prayers, and notes of encouragement. Alex's surgery went well this morning. The surgeon says his prognosis is very good. He is recovering now, and his bed is in Spencer's old spot in nursery three (good karma in that spot!).

Spencer has taken all of his feeds by bottle for over 24 hours now, and he is out of heat. He is at the moment undergoing his hearing test and car seat test. He may be coming home tomorrow! We're all shocked, including the nurses, and excited. I have so much to do!!!

Life is so good!

Tuesday, June 28, 2005

Alex Has ROP

I just got back from the hospital. Alex has Retinopathy of Prematurity, abnormal growth of the blood vessels that bring blood to the retina. If this abnormal growth continues the retinas could detach, which means he would go blind. Bleeds and the formation of scar tissue are also concerns. He will have laser surgery tomorrow morning to try to stop the growth. The doctors will know in a few weeks if it was successful. His eyes will be watched very closely over the years. There is always a chance of retinal detachment later in life. His vision could be affected even if the laser surgery successfully stops the growth.

Alex has been through so much, and overcome so much. I'm just trying to believe that he is going to be fine. His reinastimosis surgery is on hold at the moment. We need a lot of prayer, positive energy, and good thoughts.

Sunday, June 26, 2005

Another Milestone

Today, for the first time in my life, I had spit-up in my shoes. Thank you, Spencer!

Saturday, June 25, 2005

Time Together

Last Friday, June 17th, Alex was moved to the intermediate nursery where Spencer is. By Sunday they were close enough together for me to get them both in my arms at once. After over 11 weeks of being separated the boys finally got to see each other. I sobbed when the nurse placed both my babies in my embrace. What a beautiful moment it was for me. Being together is the best thing for the babies.

Spencer was his usual sleepy self, but Alex was wide awake. The next day I held them both again and it was the reverse. Spencer just stared, so wide-eyed and focused, at his brother. I love watching them together.

Yesterday Spencer became my Sack O' Sugah. Yes, that's right: he now weighs five pounds! When I look at him it's hard to believe he was ever a 1 1/2 pound baby. Alex is now 4 pounds 10 ounces. They are both taking bottles for every other feeding, so that's four times in 24 hours. Spencer is back off oxygen and Alex is on the lowest setting possible. We're really in the home stretch here. Pretty soon I'll be able to cuddle them both any time I want to.

Friday, June 17, 2005

Alex's Surgery

I just got off the phone with Alex's nurse. They're not going to be able to do his surgery until June 29th. The surgeon just doesn't have the time. I'm so disappointed. He's practically ready to come home; now we're just going to be hanging out and waiting for this. I was hoping that since it's going to be awhile they would move him down to intermediate to be with his brother. He's on oxygen on the lowest setting, is bottle feeding, and is almost out of heat; he doesn't require any special support. His nurse said that they probably won't want to move Alex and then have to move him back after his surgery. I'm in tears about all this, but there's nothing I can do, so I just have to accept it and try to let go.

Muscle Mouth

I put Alex to breast for the first time this morning and he took to it like a bee to honey. When I held him to my breast he opened his mouth and latched right on - oh yes, I felt it! I just knew he would be a natural at breast feeding. He's always opening his mouth really wide and sticking his tongue out. When I took him off and held him up to look at him a couple of times this morning he just started wailing: "Give it back!" I'm very thankful he's doing so well.

Thursday, June 16, 2005

More Good News for Alex

Alex was taken off Vapo-Therm this morning. He is now on oxygen only, on the lowest setting. He also took another whole feeding by bottle this morning. This boy is flying! The only thing holding him back now is that he's waiting for his reinastomosis (the surgery to reconnect his intestines). They have been talking about scheduling it for the last two weeks. Last week it was supposed to be last week or this; this week it's supposed to be next week. I have a call in to the surgeon. Maybe a little extra prodding from me will help get a date pinned down so we can get this done and Alex can be on the road to coming home.

Wednesday, June 15, 2005

Alex is now on a Vapo-Therm of 3 liters and took a whole bottle for his 8:00 AM feed this morning! He weighs 4 lbs. 2.8 oz. I was talking to him this morning while I was holding him and he was smiling so big.

Spencer also took his full feed by bottle again this morning. He is up to 4 lbs. 5 oz. He's going to be home in no time! I love my chubby cherub.

Monday, June 13, 2005

The Latest News

Alexander's Vapo-Therm has been reduced to four liters. He is still on 25% oxygen and doing really well. Normally when the liters are lowered on Vapo-Therm the oxygen needs to be increased while the baby adjusts, but Alex is holding his own. Because his respiratory status is stable I am going to be able to give him his first bottle at 5:00 today. I'm so excited! Alexander's weight is now 4 lbs. 1 oz.

Spencer has being doing well with his bottle feedings. He is now up to once per shift, which is three bottle feedings each day (he started with two per day last week). His weight is now 4 lbs. 2 oz. He will be coming home as soon as he can take all of his feedings by mouth. It could be any day now!

I had my baby shower on Saturday. It was a beautiful shower...really perfect. I was impressed by the creative ideas my friends and family came up with. We had a lot of fun, the food was delicious, I was surrounded by people I love....and I got just about everything the boys and I need, plus some! Yesterday Mom and I took the Target and Babies R Us gift cards and got a few more things. We worked on getting the nursery organized and I washed all the new clothes and blankets. I feel ready for the boys to come home, so now I'm getting anxious. I can't wait to bring them home so I can shower them with love 24/7.

Friday, June 10, 2005

Spencer's Big News

Today, at 71 days of age (34 4/7 weeks gestationally), Spencer took his entire 6:00 AM feeding by bottle!!!

Thursday, June 09, 2005

Alex's Respiratory Progress

When I called the hospital shortly after 4:00 this morning Alex was being switched to Vapo-Therm. I visited at 5:00 and he was on 6 liters and 25% oxygen (21% is room air), and he was satting in the 90's (the oxygen saturation level in his blood was between 90 & 100%). He was wide awake for me as I sang and talked to him. I am thrilled with the progress he's making. His nurse mentioned that if he continues to do well he can start bottle feeding. I'm hoping to do kangaroo care with him tonight, at last.

I thank God for the miracles that have been given to me.

Wednesday, June 08, 2005

An Early Morning

I went to bed just after 9:00 last night. I had planned on getting up at 5:00 AM so I could be at the hospital for Spencer's 6:00 feed. I woke up at 3:45 and was totally engorged. By the time I finished pumping and all it was 4:15. There was no point in going back to bed, so I got ready and went to the hospital to spend some time with Alex before Spencer's feeding. Alicia, Alex's nurse last night, was pushing for Vapo-Therm, and she said the doctors are right on the edge of switching him over. Spencer was a little more alert this morning when I put him to breast. After awhile he actually sucked and swallowed a few times. Then he pulled away, looked up at me, and gave me the biggest smile: "Ohhhhh, I see how this works now!" He didn't last much longer, but each time we do this he gets a little better at it.

Sunday, June 05, 2005

Sunday, June 5th

Time is dragging on. I don't think I'm getting enough sleep. I'm usually able to keep my chin up, but boy am I feeling grouchy and sad. I didn't even get to hold Spencer today. He's having a lot of A's & B's*. The nurses think they're being caused by his reflux (they appear to be occurring during and immediately after feedings), but they want him to rest today so they can observe him and make sure. I had him out yesterday for an hour and afterward his temperature was low. It's possible that his temperature may also be playing a role in the A's & B's. Spencer's nurse was upset with me yesterday for keeping him out of his isolette for an hour. Apparently, he burns a lot more calories when he's out of his isolette; it's a lot more work for his little body. This makes sense, but why hasn't anyone told me this before? I've been holding Spencer for an hour every day for the last three weeks. If I had known it wasn't good for him I wouldn't have done it. I was in tears because of this yesterday and again today. I felt like Spencer's nurse yesterday thought I was being a bad mother, but I'm trying to keep in mind that I'm hyper-sensitive right now and probably reading more into it than there is.

On to more positive news: Alex was extubated again at 1:00 AM Friday, June 3rd. He was on a C-PAP of 8 (the highest setting) and oxygen of about 35%. He has been doing well and was lowered to 7 last night. Five minutes after I walked into Alex's nursery yesterday his weekend nurse, Debbie (who I adore, by the way) asked me if I wanted to hold him. He did GREAT and I got to hold him again today. I am so incredibly thankful that he is tolerating my holding him again. He makes me so proud and happy. Alex dipped back below the 4 pound mark, but this is because he was retaining a lot of fluids while he was sick. He is no longer puffy looking and is doing great with his feeds of 38 ml (about 1.3 oz.) every three hours. He should be having the surgery to reconnect his intestines this week. He will need to be reintubated for that, but after he recovers he'll be taken off the ventilator again. I just know my blondie bear is going to fly once he's past this surgery.

Spencer was taken off of Vapo-Therm on Thursday, June 2nd. He is now on room air, and not receiving any respiratory support. Aside from his episodes of A's & B's* he is doing really well. He now weighs about 3 lbs. 7.5 oz. He was given his two month immunizations on May 31st. Thankfully I was able to be there to comfort him. He has been exploring my breasts (something we're putting on hold awhile until he gets a little bigger) and he actually latched on and fed a little on Thursday. I cried. My mom was there with me. It was a beautiful moment. I think breastfeeding is the most maternal thing I can possibly do, aside from actually carrying the babies in my womb.

*A's & B's - apneas: cessation of breathing; and bradycardias: abnormally slow heartbeat